Quick answer: Once you and another member have both liked each other, you can message each other directly.
- Open the Chats tab, select the match you want to message, type your message, and tap Send.
- Want to reach someone before matching? Send an Intro Message instead.
Once you and another member have both liked each other, you can message each other directly.
To start or continue a conversation:
- Open the Chats tab.
- Select the match you want to message.
- Type your message in the text box and tap Send.
Good to know
- You can message any member you've matched with, on both Basic and Premium.
- Want to reach someone before you've matched? Send an Intro Message instead.
- To remove a conversation, remove the match — see How to delete a message or chat?
If a conversation disappeared, see Why did a match or message disappear?