How do I send and reply to messages?

Once you and another member have both liked each other, you can message each other directly.

To start or continue a conversation:

  1. Open the Chats tab.
  2. Select the match you want to message.
  3. Type your message in the text box and tap Send.

Good to know

  • You can message any member you've matched with, on both Basic and Premium.
  • Want to reach someone before you've matched? Send an Intro Message instead.
  • To remove a conversation, remove the match — see How to delete a message or chat?

If a conversation disappeared, see Why did a match or message disappear?

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